The unspoken word

EDITOR:

When someone mentions suicide, some run, some overreact. When we hear of a suicide, we conclude that the individual had mental problems that were not addressed.

When a person softly says, "I feel like killing myself," our reaction is shrugging our shoulders, snickering an inconsiderate remark, then blowing it off.

As I share my experience about an attempted suicide, reactions vary from a hand over their mouth, a statement such as, "Oh, my God," to a gasp of air that can be heard anywhere.

Suicide attempts and the actual act of suicide are as common as driving under the influence and domestic violence; yet, I have not met a person who is afraid to talk about those subjects. Telling a friend or family member that one intends to have a few drinks most often leads to them joining you. Talking about suicidal thoughts lead to 911 being called. Police, fire and paramedics arrive at your current location. An evaluation is conduced by trained personnel. The victim will eventually be handcuffed and placed in a holding cell for observation. What's more humiliating than being scared to talk about suicide is the humility one feels sitting inside a holding tank at the local jail.

It is through education and creating a support group for those who have thoughts of suicide, or have experienced a suicidal attempt, in which we can talk freely and without fear that we can find a positive solution together.

Traci Weimer

Gardnerville