In the next few days millions will be looking for a new start. They will make New Year's resolutions, set goals, make promises and begin hoping this year will bring some needed change or a better life. By this time next week the vast majority of those resolutions will be broken and those goals shattered. Disappointment and discouragement will set in and the patterns and habits of life resurface. Why is it so hard to change? New life is not found in our will power or our desire to transform our lives. Although we can sometimes see significant change, we …